Rebound

Here what happens if you keep falling in love with the wrong person: You end up broken hearted!

Oh yes I know, I’ve been there, done that! Big times!!

And that doesn’t make me an expert (of broken heart). No! But at least I know two ways of getting over it: the HARD WAY or the EASY WAY.

The first couple times, I apparantly took the hard way. Step by step, I’ve been through the four stages of broken heart:

1. feeling sorry for yourself
2. feeling mad about yourself
3. feeling mad for him
4. feeling nothing at all

They’re right, time heals… I just wish it could be sooner, much sooner!

It took me years!!
...with sleepless nights and countless tears.

So the next time my heart broke, I chose the easy way. How? Simply find a rebound. Find another object of your affection. I kinda grabbed the next man who hit on me, didn’t care if I didn’t really like him. He seemed to care for me, and that’s enough. I just didn’t want to be alone.

Oh yes, it worked! Rebound cured…

… until I fell in love with the rebound guy. Fatal mistakes!

I shouldn’t have fallen in love with the rebound. Because the rebound guys were usually not the ‘ideal’ person. They were only the guys who happened to be at the right time (injury time I must say..)

Guess what happens next? Another broken-hearted!

The hard way took your valuable times, your happiness, golden opportunities… because you were blinded with your grieve. The easy way offered a vague happiness and lead you to another grieve.

If you were me, what would you choose now: the hard way or the easy way?